Kenyan content creator and dancer Tileh Pacbro has opened up about his views on co-parenting and the delicate matter of introducing new partners to a child.
Speaking during a Q&A session on Instagram on Wednesday, October 1, 2025, Tileh—who shares a child with his ex-partner Martina—said he does not see himself as an expert but is learning through the experience like many other parents.
Prioritizing Peace and the Child’s Well-Being
Tileh emphasized that his guiding principle in co-parenting is the well-being of his child and maintaining peace. He explained that every decision he makes comes from what he feels is best for his baby rather than outside perceptions or criticism.
“I appreciate how knowledgeable you think I am in matters of co-parenting, but yo! I’m finding my way just like everyone else,” he noted, adding that he prioritizes peace of mind above everything else.
Meeting New People is Natural
Addressing the question of introducing new partners, Tileh shared that he views the process as a normal part of life. Children, he said, meet new people daily, so the presence of one additional person would not drastically alter their world.
“Anyways, the baby will meet and interact with new people in their lives every day, one person wouldn’t change much,” he explained.
Calm, Safe, and Supportive Approach
For Tileh, the focus remains on ensuring his child feels safe, protected, and supported, regardless of changes in his personal life. His message reflects a calm, balanced approach to co-parenting—anchored in peace, stability, and prioritizing the child’s needs over external opinions.
